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Tough decisions

I'm all about effortless living, or at least flow living. I think we often make things much more complicated than they need to be. But at the same time, sometimes we need to make some tough decisions. 

"Either you make difficult decisions and have an easy life or you make easy decisions and have a difficult life."

I don't remember where I heard it first and I'm probably paraphrasing, but, still, there's something to it. Sometimes we need to make the difficult decisions to simplify our lives. We might need to end that relationship. Take the leap. Say no so we can say yes fully. 

I've been around people afraid of putting the foot down and making tough decisions and have witnessed first hand how messy it all can get. Decisions are not always easy, but they can lead to ease. 

With all my love,

Helena 

Stop striving for happiness

In the pursuit of happiness. I'm all in this with you. I write about it sometimes and I talk about it often. But it's not all about happiness. It's also about living. 

What if the goal would be feeling alive rather than feeling happy? What if we're in this human experience to do just that, living, no matter what that entails. 

You know what that they say; people rather be hated than ignored because that means someone actually care enough to have an opinion at all. The same way we might rather feel really tough feelings than feeling nothing at all. 

We're here to live and to experience and that sometimes means rough patches, that's alright, we're still living through them. There's no failure in being unhappy, it's part of the human condition to sometimes feel this way. What's closer to a failure is not living at all, because then we missed the purpose of the whole thing. 

So, embrace life, feel whatever you need to feel. And maybe you'll notice, that happiness comes to visit a little more often, when you stop resisting what's far from it.

With all my love,

Helena