relationship

For a reason, for a season

I don't know who first mentioned this to me but I think it's a brilliant reminder. Everything in life comes to us for a reason and for a season. This is if you believe there is a meaning to everything that happens in life. 

Take the relationship that ended for example. You met, you bonded, you shared and you learned. Then something happened and the relationship ended. If you believe in meaning, there's a reason for this as well, your season is over. 

Not all relationships are meant to last a lifetime. I believe we have soul contracts with many people in our lives and we meet to learn and share experiences, and when we've learnt what we needed to learn, the relationship will end. Some relationships will last a lifetime, and those are important teachers. But, at the same time, sometimes we learn more from someone we meet on the street for ten minutes than we do from a lifelong relationships. That's all good. 

But remember, it doesn't have to be a bad thing when a relationship ends. It might very well have played out it's purpose. For a reason, for a season. 

With all my love,
Helena