Deliberate living is deciding how you want to feel first and then getting into action. Whether or not you get what you want is not as important when you have already experienced the feeling you want to feel. And the neat thing is that you attract what you feel, so when you're aligned with your favorite feelings you'll attract more of that which creates those feelings for you.
Default living is actioning yourself through life and hoping for some good feelings along the way, usually only when you get the outcome that you wished for.
You decide what perspective you want.
With all my love,