This is a recurring theme in my life right now, as so here on the blog. Living deliberately.
When you focus first on how you want to feel and learn how to create those emotions in your life, you can't fail. If you then act and don't reach the outcome you wanted it really doesn't matter as much because you felt the way you wanted to feel to begin with. Default living, as Jess Lively calls it, is when we act and wait for the outcome to decide how we get to feel and that's when we're always depending on outer circumstances of which we have very little control.
The added bonus when you live deliberately is that when you first feel the way you want to feel you automatically attract more of what you want. Congrats!
With all my love,